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Pleasure without Pain Blindfold me, spank me, and make me eat out of a dish on the floor. Yeah, now that's my idea of sexual pleasure. NOT! BDSM. Hmm? I've always wondered about that. Everytime I see those letters, the only thing that comes into my mind is pain. I hate pain. That's probably why I'm not at all into BDSM. Yes, I've read about it, and have been to many a website, call me crazy, but I just can't understand anyone deriving sexual pleasure from pain.
One site I went to (which shall remain nameless) depicted both women and men being hog tied, with ball gags in their mouths. On one of the men, it showed clothespins on his testicals. Fucking OUCH!!!! Plus, the look on his face did not look like one of pleasure!!
Then there was this other site (again, nameless, as there are many of them with a lot of the same pictures) where a woman was being spanked, with a paddle, until her bottom was so red, mottled and full of welts..that the look upon her eyes was like she was in sheer torture. Yeah right, that'll sure make me have mulitple orgasms! NOT!
If my husband ever came home and wanted to put a leather collar on me, told me to eat out of a dish on the floor, then licked my pussy and told me NOT to have an orgasm until he said so, well, you can bet your freakin' bottom dollar, that I'd be callin' the men in the white coats to come 'n pick up his ass!!!
Don't get me wrong here, I do like the occasional, playful slaps on the ass, and the hair pulls while I'm gettin' it doggie style, nibbles on my neck and inner thighs, and even a some nipple action, but that does not mean that I want welts on my ass, clumps of hair in the hands of my lover, visible bite marks, or sore nipples for weeks.
But like I've always said, different strokes for different folks, and what two (or 3 or 4..) consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes and bedrooms, (or dungeons), is none of my business. Call me vanilla, call me crazy, call me un-open-minded..hell, call me anything you want, you'll never convince me that something that causes so much pain, and even looks painful on the face of the person, is actually exuding pleasure. Be it sexual or otherwise.
Now I'm off to have missionary style sex, to the tunes of Barry White and enjoy my mutiple orgasms without pain, thank you very much. Have a nice day. :)
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