The G-spot is a contentious issue. Some people (mostly men) claim that
it doesn't exist. Some women rave about the intensity of a G-spot
orgasm. Like anything, it's different for everyone but you can certainly
have fun trying to find it.
If you've never masturbated before, starting with a G-spot orgasm is a
bit like trying to study for a degree before you've learned to read.
It's an ambitious thing to try for.
First of all, try masturbating to give yourself a clitoral orgasm; by
far the easiest to achieve. Using a lubricated finger (saliva is fine
for lubrication in this instance) rub your clitoris and labia or slide a
finger inside yourself to see what feels good. Some women also like
rubbing against something like a a pillow. You could also use a toy but
it's always good to start with a finger so you know how to give yourself
an orgasm without needing batteries in the house.
If you find something that gets you going, keep doing it and you should
come. Don't focus on the fact that you want to have an orgasm as
they're elusive little beasts and tend to prefer creeping up on you rather
than being thought about too much.
Once you've come in this way, move on to the G-spot orgasm.
The G-Spot is located on the upper wall of your vagina. Start
masturbating then, once you're wet enough, slide a finger or two up your vagina
and press relatively firmly on the top wall of your vagina (towards
your pubic area rather than towards your arse) about an inch up. When (if)
you feel a spongy length of tissue that feels good when you stimulate
it, you've hit the spot.
If it doesn't feel tingly, carry on moving your finger(s) up by about
half an inch at a time. All women are different so keep moving your
fingers until you find an area that tingles when you press on it. You may
find a G Spot vibe helps you, as it can be a tricky thing to locate.
You may not get a great amount of pleasure from G-spot stimulation or
even be able to find it at all. Different women get off on different
things so it may well be that this isn't a particularly sensitive area for
you (well, no more than the rest of your vagina) Conversely, you could
have a mind-blowing orgasm. Be prepared; G-spot stimulation can lead to
female ejaculation in some women so don't get freaked out if there's a
squirt of fluid when you come. It's not urine. The fluid is similar to
the male ejaculate from prostate fluids.
For more in-depth information, you may find The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot useful.
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