Hello, and welcome to the Meow...Please, help yourself to a beverage and make yourself comfortable. Allow me to introduce myself, I'm Kat. I know, it's a bit of an unusual name, however, it suits me well. For friends that is, but not for my sometimes DHH (dick-head hubby). He hates when people call me Kat, in fact, he will purposely call me by my given name and snicker at them. I think he associates it with me being evil in some way. Or naughty... maybe that's one of the reasons I have a lover.

Now you may be thinking, Damn, what a bitch. to go out and fuck on her husband like that. But I have my reasons for living the life I do. I guess it's like having your cake and eating it too. I love my sometimes DHH, I adore that he takes care of me and gives me the things I need. But in all honesty ladies, (and gents) he sucks in bed. Oh, I've tried telling him, having long, laborious talks with him about what I like and how I like it. And it changes from time to time, but always reverts back to the same 30-45 minute love making session. He fulfills my security needs, but not my sexual ones.

Sure I could do it myself, get out the old vib and go for it. But its not the same as a human body. Therefore, I met a man... a man whom I at first thought would break lil ol' me in two...Much to my surprise, he's everything in a lover that I was looking for.

Gentle, yet rough...not afraid to explore and be adventurous. He makes me feel beautiful and sexy... he makes me WANT to have sex. He fills my sexual needs...

Now, I'm not condoning or saying that every married woman should go out and find herself a lover. I know there are plenty of women who are happily married, and their husbands fulfill all of their needs...all of them. I'm just giving you MY side of My story... and why it works and sometimes does NOT work for me. But I'll get into the differences between husbands and lovers in a future column.

And please, if you have any questions or would like to discuss your "needs" drop me a line anytime....I'm here to tell you the ins & outs of being married and having an affair...

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