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Spring Couplings As most of you know, I am pagan. And partnerless.
Bad combination for celebrating the Spring season, or sabbat festival.
I don't practice 'sexual magic,' nor do I know much about it. However, having sex in the Spring is always rather magical for me. Celebrating the rebirth, the fertility, celebrating the love that goes with it...
Humans, being one of the few animals that seems to derive great pleasure from sex, not just a release, can experience satisfaction in a whole new way when feeling their acts are part of the circle of life, and in tune with nature...
Sure, sex can be like that any time of year, but for me, this is a special time of year. Being 'alone' now is rough.
I have decided that this is a lesson for me, something to master. So, naturally, this being a sex lesson to master, what better way to learn than to masturbate? (Go ahead & laugh!)
But seriously, since this is the first spring in what, 20 years, that I have been a sexual person & without a partner, this seems appropriate to me.
After a long, dark mid-western winter of hiding my body beneath heavy & often drab clothing, I am now taking the time to enjoy the feeling of my own body. Pampering myself with lotions & potions. Soaking in warm, bubbly, scented tubs, with candles & a glass of wine ~ lights on, so I can see myself. Accept myself. Love myself.
I can see roundness, and even that tummy bulge & say, 'Yes, I am a woman' and feel proud of my softness, not ashamed of it. I can celebrate me.
Sure, as I enjoy the womanly curves with my eyes, a wet, soapy hand will travel them... And as I dry myself off, and apply yummmy smelling lotions & creams, I enjoy the feeling of contact on my skin...
And then, to bed I go.
And I maybe without a male partner, but I am not alone! I have purchased several new toys ~ thank you Mr-Enegizer-Rabbit instead of the Easter Bunny!
My favorites right now are the vibrating nipple clamps, because I can use them to get great stimulation while my hands are busy below!
So often, when you are into breast play as I am, you can feel like you're missing something when you go straight for the 'button,' you know? (In fact, I have had a few lovers in the past that would have 'lasted longer' with me if I had used these clamps when they were with me ~ they had no breast-play game at all!)
You can also use these clamps in other areas, so they are a nice traveling set to take along ~ You can use one on a nipple, and the other you can rub against your clit, and voila!
While I am getting rather proficient with my toys, and myself, I do hope I have mastered this lesson... I would like a partner again...
Maybe next Spring?
Namaste,
Rhiannon
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