I have a favorite sex position. I am sure many of you do *wink*
Seems a favorite one, much talked about by we sex kittens, is what most folks call 'doggie style' but, of course, with our attitudes, we prefer to call it after what pleases us.
Frankly, the guy can call what he wants, as long as I get it *giggle* but when I talk with my girls, we call it kitty style or 'kittying.'
Now, I know most of you know the position, and the variants, so this might be a bit of a review... But I will also tell you why it works so damn well!
The Basic Kitty:
You on all fours, he on his knees, bangin' you from behind baby! (Yeah, I am gonna be technical like this the whole way thru!)
Why it works, from the 'technical side' is that the woman does not have to bear all the weight of the man, and there is plenty of freedom, both in movement & access. From this position, his hands are free to reach nipple, clit or anus ~ heck with two hands, he can get 2 out of 3! Since your hips are likely to be at a bit of an angle (it happens naturally folks, no need to over-think this!) you get much deeper penetration. (Gracie, self-named "Penetration Girl" is a huge fan of kitty, just for this alone!)
Why it works for me, is that you can counter-act with your own hips, meeting each thrust. His free hands mean lots of extra potential...
For me, this will mean that *I* can pay a bit more attention to my clit, if I need it, and leave him to his wishes, usually the nipples. Well all this is true at least until things get really going, and I brace my self by lowering my chest & upper body onto the mattress (or floor), trying to breath before everything goes Kaboom!
I know that Roxy loves hair pulls, and the occassional ass slaps when she is kittyin'. (You'd know it too if you noticed her sign off in most columns!)
And Gracie loves the feel of those balls slammin' her clit as she gets her special extras too. (She told me to mention that a mirror should be near you so he can watch your breasts bounce & sway with each thrust!)
Variations:
There are a few variations of this position. Some are great things to try if you have great height differences, and you can't quite 'fit' right in the 'standard.'
You can stand on the floor, bent at the waist over a bed. (Depending on your height, you can still rest or brace your upper body on the bed if needed.) Depending upon his height, you can widen your stance to be 'shorter' or bring them closer together to be 'taller.' The man usually keeps his knees slightly bent, and can also modify his stance slightly for help with height/fit issues.
For myself, I have noticed that this one tends to make men use one arm to hold onto you more, loosing some of that extra hand action sometimes... But hey, you can still reach what you need to! *wink*
Variation 2 is a bit more strenuous. It requires a bit of upper body strength...
Sort of a reverse of the above, you rest your weight on your arms, hands on the floor, your knees on the edge of the bed. The man is on his knees on the bed, or standing over your legs. This is a bit tricker to start off with, especially the first time, but it can really make up for height/fit issues, and your hips are at even more of an angle, allowing for 'new' sensations. Usually, I start with my legs open wide, until he penetrates, then I bring them together to fully ensure his 'capture.' (This exta 'friction' tends to make up for less hip action on my part, cuz in that positioon, I am not as strong as some... and if he gets fast & furious, it is hang on!)
Variation 3 is one I like never use, but I mention it for those of you who are interested. You start with the basic, but then the man takes your thighs and lifts them so your thighs are snug on his hips. You knees are slightly bent & more of your weight is on your arms. His hands are pretty much guaranteed to be holding your thighs or hips the whole time, so there is less 'extra goodies' (which is why I don't like this one! *wink*) But I have known women, like Rhiannon, who say the penetration & angle is superb...
So, ladies, go hit it kitty style!
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