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First Times How was your first time? Frankly, society has weird hang ups with first times. As if it something so amazing that it is not just worthy of note, it‘s the stuff dreams are made of. But sometimes, the expectations are so great, reality cannot measure up.
When a woman decides to give of herself, to share, to be intimate, the decision is the moment. The decision is made, and then, provided someone doesn't mess it all up, there is the action.
There is the old line about a woman going on a date, who when asked if she has shaved her legs replies 'Yes,' and the friend says 'Oh, you're gonna do it!'
And it's true. We women do make our minds up about these things in advance. "Just in case," you know. Even if we play coy, act as if we are 'giving in to you,' our minds were made up long ago... at least when we were reaching for that razor... The choice is made, & we shave our legs, with the hope that our potential partner doesn't ruin everything.
We always, always, reserve the right to change our minds as well.
A woman's mind is always thinking, and a Sex Kitten's mind works overtime. A woman who has clearly decided to 'do it' is more prepared to handle the consequences. She has thought it through, knows she is ready, and is ready (as she can be!) for what occurs.
In my opinion, the decision to do it is far more impressive than the act itself.
The act can be less than we imagined. Or it can be better. Or maybe it is just very different than anything we thought of at all.
And then there is the whole issue of ‘normal.’ How old were you? How long did it last? Were you married? How good was it?
Folks want to know if you're experience was the same as theirs ~ Are they normal? Are you proper? Improper?
It’s personal & private, and the information nearly as intimate as the acts themselves. Yet people want to know.
As usual, the ladies in the boudoirs are brave enough to share with you...
Feel free to share your thoughts & experiences on the boards!
With much affection,
Gracie
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