Orgasm: Food for the Soul
What happens to your soul when you have an orgasm?
The experience is far too profound and deeply moving to be simply a stimulation of nerve endings and brain cells. To paraphrase Nine Inch Nails, gettin’ yer nut “gets you closer to God.”
Perhaps someone studied in the ways of Tantra could explain the relationship between orgasm and the Chakras, or the astral connection that occurs when two people experience orgasm at the same moment. I cannot. I'm mystified by it all.
But I can tell you there are physical sensations that touch the soul and there are those that do not. Scratching a mosquito bite is a physically satisfying, fulfilling experience, but somehow it does not go to the soul level. A sneeze, on the other hand, is nearly cosmic; not to mention that long, full-bellied, arm-stretching, open-mouthed, moaning yawn that takes you briefly to another dimension.
Sometimes you have dreams you barely remember or ones that are so silly you describe them to your spouse over breakfast and then immediately forget them as you go about your day. Sometimes you have dreams that leave you feeling things for hours or even days. Those are dreams that touch the soul.
Orgasm is like that. Once you have experienced one, you most definitely want to do it again. I once saw a middle-aged woman break down and cry because she had not had an orgasm since she was a teen-ager. She would pay thousands of dollars to a sex therapist to learn how to come again. Having reached through her clit or her vagina or her nipples and touched it once, her soul was hungry to be touched for the rest of her life.
What happens to you when you come? Do you tense up, hyperventilate, call to Jesus, awaken your neighbors with great crying sobs? Since everybody expresses orgasm in different ways, maybe we all feel them in different ways too. If a person’s chakras are not healthy, perhaps the orgasm gets lost in the body and never reaches the soul. And maybe this person becomes obsesses with getting his rocks off because the experience is never as profound as he knows it should be. Perhaps this leads to sexual dysfunction, perversion, rape, infidelity and all manner of sexual troubles.
Like the dream that stays with you, forcing you to experience it long past the morning because your soul is tingling with the rare bliss of connecting for a time with your conscious mind, maybe your best orgasms stay with you, strengthening your aura and lighting up your spirit.
May your orgasms always touch your soul and may you never be without.