Gather 'round my sisters, let's get a show of hands here: How many of you have had your man call you a cunt during a fight? Whoa, that's a lot of hands. But then, I expected that. 'Cunt' is a favorite verbal vilification by many males.
Do they believe that in one quick blurt they can undo 20-50 years of begging & wishing? Do they think that if they speak the name of our organs with such contempt, that we will suddenly feel inferior? *snort*
(Call me a hypocrite, but calling a man a prick is not entirely the same, for prick also has other meanings, while cunt does not.)
Is it ironic, or idiotic, that men choose to denigrate us by calling us the very organ they wish to plant themselves firmly inside of? To get some answers, we'll need to back up here a bit, and look at the context, perhaps some history as well.
Typically, there are but two scenarios in which men utter the word cunt without the usual salacious sentiments: A) They were rejected from getting some, or B) They've been inside, but are angry over something.
First, the have-nots.
A man in this group been refused passage in the love tunnel, despite the pirate in his pants trying to be your matey, he's forced to walk his own plank. Arg! He sputters. And, realizing how stupid that sounds, he tries to yell something hateful towards you. But all the blood has rushed to the little head, lacking any blood flow & oxygen to the brain, leaving him unable to really think. He spits out the only word he can find ~ the one upon which he was fixated upon: cunt.
In fact, this may very well be the origins of the first man calling the first woman a 'cunt' in a negative fashion ~ when his more oxygenated pals questioned him on his choice of insults, he told them 'cunt' was the ultimate insult. (Remember, I said they had more oxygen, I didn't say they were bright... Men are sheep, after all... or is that men do sheep? Oh well, that's for another time. On to the second group.)
Those in Group B have been fortunate enough to yet they sneer the word 'cunt' at you as if it is the ultimate insult to give a woman. Why they believe real women are disgusted by their own bodies, or any less proud of their beautiful genitalia than a man is regarding his pork sword, I don't understand. Oooh, such a slur on my womanhood to be called by my womanhood!
What are they thinking?!
Perhaps they, with their own penis envy projections, believe we really wish we had our own spooge stick instead of the inferior spooge receptacle... *uncontrollably laughs* We can get those whenever we want them, remember the pirate?
Or perhaps, even when very very angry, with all that Testosterone running about in their bodies, men are, once again, still only to articulate the one thing they are fixated upon: Getting you to shut up & let them fuck you.
Sounds damn plausible to me.
When Gracie is called a cunt, she either laughs and says "Damn right!" or smiles sweetly & says, "So, you'd like to compliment me, perhaps say you're sorry now?" ~ depending upon her mood & the situation. If they insist that I am "such a dumb cunt, (I) don't even know when I've been insulted," I tell them that my brain does all my thinking, thank you, and the my luscious cunt busies itself with other things... and then I walk away, to let them think about it...
More often than not, I don't hear the word 'cunt' yelled in my direction. Just a few stiffled gasps.
Let's hope that helps them get more oxygen to their big heads. They need it.