From the Mouths of Babes - Sex~Kitten.net

Here's what Amythest had to say...I've not edited her comments, or included any of my questions. I wanted to share her words with you, without my interference.

This is what she thinks sex and babies and love and marriage are all about.

What we teach our children NOW will be remembered later...it is never to early to talk about sex.

Well I do not like it so much. I am sure it hurts. But you told me it hurts on the first time. I just really do not like the, well, ya know, the penis part. (Giggle)

I wanna have sex when I am 20. (Is that good? I mean, is that old enough?)

Can I ask them questions….the people who read this?

How old do YOU think you should have sex?

What child do you think you would have? A boy or a girl?

What would you name it?

Sometimes women have extra blood so they can have blood and food for the baby.

I don’t think I will have sex soon. I will try to have sex in 12 years. Because I am 8 and I wanna have it when I am 20.

If I had sex now, I refuse. That’s a bit why I don’t wanna be 20, plus it would really, really hurt. I would scream at the top of my lungs. And that hurts, too!

I’ll try to be married at 20. I really wanna be married at that age. My mommy had me at 19. I was born when Mommy was 19, and that is very, very young. I wonder what year SHE had sex?

I want babies after I have sex. Oh yeah. This is how I wanna do it.

I don’t wanna get married first. I want to have sex, get married, and then have a baby. Or…just find someone that I love, marry ‘em, have sex, and THEN have a child. Cuz I don’t think I wanna have sex before I am married. I dunno…I like both of them.

But I think I like the second schedule.

You have to be in love to have sex.

My momma told me that if somebody touches one of my private parts, without permission…then…at school? I get a teacher, tell them about it, ask them if I can call my mommy, and then my mommy should come over and we can kinda call 911. Especially if it is a grown up. I am only 8 years old! You expect someone to just walk by me and touch my private parts and I let them get away with it???? Nuh unh!!

If I had sex right now, I don’t think I could get pregnant. Though I would SO refuse!

The only way I would not refuse is if someone cast a crazy spell on me. What are they gonna do? Wash my brain into making me think I am 20 and I can have sex??!!

I just really wanna wait until I am 20. And Mom had me at 19. I just…wanna get married at 20. It’s one year after my mommy had me and I guess it just sounds good.

I think I might have a baby at 23. But if I get married at the age of 20, I will just…I should just have a baby at 23. Because my mommy told me that it takes 2 years to have a baby…and that is correct. Isn’t it Mommy? (Mommy just told me that it takes 9 months, I guess I was mistaken.)

If you have your period, the bleeding thing, at the age 13? You can be pregnant. Um…the way you get pregnant is you have a little tiny egg in your body and the blood goes in it and that little eggs grows a bit. While it grows, it forms into a baby. And then after a while, you go to the hospital and you have a bit of surgery to take the baby out. And then the doctors make sure that there are 2 legs, 2 arms, eyes, 4 fingers on each hand and thumbs…you know, all the rest of that stuff.

If I have sex or have a baby at 13…what? Pregnant at 13. WAY too young!!

Sure, I could have sex at 13 but I really don’t want to. It’s just way too early and that’s why I refuse.

The way you get pregnant is….when the boy puts his penis up your vagina, some stuff comes out and that stuff, I cannot remember, but it comes out because the penis touched the little egg and moves the egg to wear it can grow from the blood part.

I am not gonna go, “Hi boy, I am 20, wanna have sex with me??” I don’t want someone I don’t even know to have his penis go in my vagina…and we can have sex without my mom looking. A stranger? No way!!

I dunno who I wanna have sex with, but if I am going to have sex I wanna make sure I am old enough, and that it is someone I love and someone that I know is responsible for me.

My mommy told me that – make sure it is always someone who stood up for you. Don’t let it be someone you don’t know – they could really hurt you. Especially the first time.

My mommy told me one time that there is a special way that you can have sex and not have a baby. The boy puts something around his penis that won’t be the real penis, so it cannot move the egg. But it COULD still happen.

Because it’s not that good – it still could happen.

I will only use one of those things if I don’t want a baby yet.

When Mommy had me, she didn’t get the medicine to make her fall asleep.

And that’s what I say about what my mommy told me. Thank you. I hope I can speak to you soon. Bye!