What more is there to say? I have been singing the song for a long, long time, wishing I could find someone with that "Slow Hand." Long ago, in another lifetime, I copied the song for my tape deck...several times on the same tape. Over and over I played it. It was the anthem of my search for the perfect lover. "Slow Hand" is more than physical, it is an attitude toward your partner in lovemaking.

There is nothing more sensual than being with a man who is willing to take time to make me feel good. From the moment he gently touches me I know he is ready and willing to take the time needed for me reach that incredible climax. He is not thinking about himself; he is thinking about how much I can enjoy his touch. He touches my shoulder and slides his hand slowly down my arm. Even my fingers are not neglected in this erotic touch. I can feel his hands caressing the insides of my wrists, sending shockwaves to my brain and belly. Slowly his hand retraces its path and gently, slowly glides to my breasts where he kneads them before he ever touches the nipples. When he finally does, I am ready for him and want him to use his fingers to play with them, roll them, and tease them.

Then his hands slide further down my body. He spends time and touches every part of me. As his hands wander to my hips and legs, my hands are pulling his mouth to my breasts which he gently suckles while exploring all parts of my body. Only when I am ready, and he knows by the way my body responds to him, does he slide his hands between my legs and part the lips. Slowly and gently he drives me crazy for wanting him. I am wet. I rise to his hands as they tempt and tease the hard nub and slide inside me. But his hands are not finished. There is no rushing them. Over and over again they tease me to higher levels of ecstasy until I don't think I can stand more. Still he continues to use his hands to transport me even higher on the steps to that final orgasm that shakes my body and leaves me gasping and glowing.

There is no need to rush. Maybe it is because we are older that there is no need to hurry any more. But I don't think that is true. Some men seem to instinctively know that a woman needs the time he can give her to reach the heights of an orgasm. And some never learn that when they pleasure their partner they will receive back more than they give. Even into later years, these are the men who need to rush, grab with their hands and take only for their own gratification.

As for me: