A New Trick in Libby's Treat Bag

About six months ago, my partner and I had been toying with the idea of doing live sex "shows" in front of another person. I don't know who brought it up first, but it was just an idea and not one that I took seriously at first. Then I happened to come across an article in JANE magazine, of all places, written by a woman who regularly had sex with her boyfriend in front of men for money. They usually posted ads on Craigslist and charged $300 per session. Wow, I thought, people actually do do this and make money at it as well. Why not give it a try?

I told my partner about the article and placed an ad in the 'Casual Encounters' section on CL, usually for those looking for no-strings-attached sexual encounters, without exchange of money. I couldn't believe the responses. They came in by the dozens, many with photos, and some from couples looking to do the same thing. I didn't know what to say to everyone, as there was no way we could accommodate them all. After speaking with my partner and forwarding him some of the emails, we narrowed it down to older gentlemen only, as they seemed safer and less threatening. It was weird. I finally decided on a man in his fifties, who agreed I could do some light domination with him if I wanted to, or so I had thought.

My original plan was to do all this at a dungeon space I rent out down the street from my partner's house. I t has the usually dungeon equipment, along with tables, a couch, and a futon. There's plenty of stuff to play with and on, to make the experience more fun. So I informed the guy, it would cost $50 for the rental fee of the space, but it would be lots of fun. He then replied that he insisted on bringing a female friend with him for "safety" and would not participate if she couldn't come with. This was not cool with either myself or my partner, who was already nervous about this whole scenario, so we canceled our plans. It was a bit of a letdown for both of us, as we had screened through what seemed like hundreds of replies to get to this one guy. So for a long time after, we did nothing. I hesitated on placing a new ad figuring I'd wait for the right person to come along.

The right person didn't exactly come along, but he was someone who was there all along. Some of you who read my Adult Backwash column may remember "The Balls", an extremely submissive client who likes to be tortured in a very specific part of his body. One Friday night, The Balls calls me out of the blue, looking to have some fun or go out somewhere (as if I would ever be seen with him in public). I inform him that I already have plans, but then think twice about his request and tell him I'll call him back. Immediately, I call my partner and tell him I found someone to watch us, a safe person, who's submissive and we won't have problems with. He nervously agrees to do it. I call Balls back and tell him to meet me at the dungeon space in an hour for a special treat. Finally, after months of talk, we get to act out our fantasy. Now I'm nervous.

My partner meets me at the dungeon, but is so nervous that he is shaking and I tell him to wait in a side room until I come get him. The Balls arrives, not exactly knowing what he is in for, and I torture him a bit. I put a blindfold on him and tie him into a fetal position on the floor. I retrieve my partner from the back room and we being fooling around and fucking in various positions in the room. The Balls continues to remain motionless on the floor, still blindfolded. I don't speak or acknowledge him. Once we are finished, my partner leaves, and I finally untie Balls and remove his blindfold. He is upset and begins to complain about not getting to see anything and wants to stay and "talk to me for awhile". I tell him I have to leave and only have the space rented out for an hour. I send him out, but he sits on the front stoop, waiting for me to leave. I yell at him and tell him to leave, worried that he will follow me, but he sheepishly walks away, sulking. How pathetic.

Later I ask my partner about the experience, and though it was new and strange for him, he thinks it's something he might want to try again. However, he too complains about the blindfold, saying it would have been more of a turn on if the guy could have seen what was happening. So much for that idea. I figured it would make things easier for the first time, but I guess I was wrong.

Since then, I've tried to arrange this experience again, this time with another client was turned on by watching a couple, but it has been a scheduling nightmare. I never thought getting three people together on one night would be so difficult, both knowing what I know about working an escort service and the torture of having to arrange multiple girl calls, I should have known better. Somehow, when it comes to sex, getting three like-minded people in one room at the same time is an exercise in futility. When the client calls, my partner is busy or 'not in the mood', when my partner is ready, the client is out-of-town or too tired. This has gone on for weeks now, that if it ever actually happens, the experience may actually just be too exhausting and weird for me to be kinky. So now I'm toying with placing another CL ad, but the legwork involved with arranging a live sex show is way more than I'd ever imagined.

Still, I think it's a great idea. If people are willing to shell out cash to buy porn, then surely they would spend a few extra bucks to watch a real live couple have sex in front of them. I'm suprised more people haven't thought of this, particularly sex workers and porn stars that leave the business because they entered into a relationship. Finally, here's a great way to have hot sex with your partner and make money doing it.

I'm not sure if my partner and I will make this a regular thing, but it was interesting to try at least once, even though I'm not much of an exhibitionist. So Sex Kittens, what do you think? If someone wanted to watch, and pay for the experience, would you do it?