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The Little Old Lady From Pasadena Did More Than Drive Go Granny, go Granny, go Granny, go! Her daughter Mary, 44, was horrified. Her granddaughter Jennie, 23, thought it was cool. Granny Isabel was going to get married again…at 67. After the shower for the new bride put on by the “girls” at the senior center, Mary and Jenny had taken Isabel out for lunch. As they were finishing lunch at the local Olive Garden, Isabel was going on about Robert… “…and you know, he’s quite good in bed.” “Mother!” reprimanded Mary horrified. “Cool,” said Jennie, smiling. Mary turned on Jennie, “And you approve of this…this behavior?” Jennie patted her mother’s hand and turned to Isabel. “Just remember, Gran, you need to be safe.” “Oh, don’t worry about that, Dear. We take precautions. We have been having speakers about safe sex at the center.” *****
Is this far-fetched? Hardly. With more and more of our parents living longer and longer, they are re-marrying and, let’s face it, having sex. Just because “Gran” is receiving Social Security checks doesn’t mean that the physical side of her relationships has ended. In fact, there is a lot more going on in those senior centers than daughters would like to think. Just because we suddenly become “old” doesn’t mean we suddenly become a nun. In fact, there is more of a freedom as we age than anyone thought. Most of us just don’t want to face the fact our parents are sexual beings. To contemplate our grandparents in a physical relationship is frightening. Oh, they may not have the mad, wild sex they had at 25, but they do have satisfying relationships. There is not the rush to couple; it is more relaxed. And, as we age, not as often. Children At Play
moans escape not from ecstasy but the morning rising the daily greeting to the sun after a night laced with erotic pain and pleasure where arthritic hips rose once more to the rhythm of wanting and arms embraced the lover’s need
only a day or two and I shall once again moisten to the prospect and be ready for the dance
I expect to be a sex-kitten at 75.
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