Uh, I'll take Cuddling for 200, Alex

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Of UTIs & TMIs.

1. Wash up, cuddle or fall asleep?

Wash-up ~ and to take a leak.

Girls, it's really important to urinate before and after sex to keep the urethra clear of bacteria. Doing this prevents bacteria, usually E. coli, from traveling from your colon to the urethra and bladder resulting in urinary tract infections (UTI).

Because the colon, urethra and bladder are in close vicinity to one another, sexual intercourse facilitates the transfer from the rectal area up into the urethra, where it multiplies and causes a UTI. So, emptying your bladder before having sex flushes existing E. coli out of your urethra and urinating after sex prevents E. coli from settling into your urethra, which may ultimately cause a UTI.

(If you are prone to UTIs try to avoid prolonged direct clitoral stimulation, rear entry positions, and prolonged vigorous sex as they tend to place stress on your urethra. Also, a well lubricated vagina reduces the stress. Not happy news, I realize, but facts are better than fiction here.)

2. Have you ever fake orgasms?

Yes. But in my defense, I was in my early 20's and knew very little about how to achieve my own pleasure during sex. Getting him off quickly meant sex was if not mind-blowingly orgasmic at least not abrasive and painful.

How could I fake something I'd never had before? Bah. That's easy. Just moan and pant, starting slow and quiet (with a few rapid bursts here and there) to a louder end (hopefully just before he really blows) which culminates in ~ and this is important ~ a complete relaxation of most of your muscles. (Don't play dead ~ that's creepy! Just relax yourself.)

3. In any 24 hour period, what is the most number of time you have ever had sex?

Sixteen. It was a busy work day followed by a randy personal date.

4. Have you ever had sex or give/received oral sex while you were driving a car?

I've given quite a blow jobs while he was driving... Again, while stupid in my 20's. As sexy as it may sound, orgasms and driving do not mix.

I doubt seriously that any woman could drive a car and receive one. Ditto giving one.

5. What do you think the average number of sexual partners your sex has in their lifetime (so for me a male)? Do you think most people lie when asked?

I have no idea. I'm certainly not average...

This would also vary so widely by personal values (religion, notions of romance, etc.) and life experiences (such as satisfaction with masturbation, ability to marry etc.) Since I don't have the data for 'average' people, I have no idea how to extrapolate that into sex partners.

Bonus (as in optional):Can men and women be "just friends?" (Explain)

Duh yeah. It can be complicated if they once had a romantic or sexual relationship, if one has wondered if they should have such a relationship, or if another is worried that they will... But if you honestly think they can't then 1) you really must be stuck on yourself to think that no one can resist you, and 2), are devaluing friendships in general.

You can play along with TMI 104 here in the comments, at your own blog etc.


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