You don’t need a stripper pole to be an exotic striptease dancer. Take a page from Elizabeth “China Doll” Dickerson and opt for balloons.
This “shake dancer” tip is an actual page from Jet magazine, March 25, 1954.
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Pop!May 9th, 2012You don’t need a stripper pole to be an exotic striptease dancer. Take a page from Elizabeth “China Doll” Dickerson and opt for balloons. This “shake dancer” tip is an actual page from Jet magazine, March 25, 1954. Sex & Relationships: Gender Rights In EqualityApril 20th, 2012In Feminism and Chivalry — A Case of Identity and Desire, Valerie Jean-Charles talks about the “delicate relationship between self-labeling as a feminist and desiring chivalry.” Who knew that in 2012 we’d, again, be discussing such things; but given the current republican war on women, I guess everything’s up for debate again. *heavy sigh* Jean-Charles writes:
There’s not a thing she’s said there that I disagree with. …But somehow, I am not content to, well, remain content. I think it’s silly that anyone questions these sorts of things to the extent that someone like Jean-Charles has to write about it. But what this silliness shows is a complete lack of understanding of what the word “equality” means. Equality means equal in status, rights, and opportunities. Which in the good ol’ U.S. of A. means that all humans, of all genders, races, religions, orientations, belief systems ~ however you want to demographically sort persons, that they all have the same status, rights, and opportunities that white men have been enjoying. You know, the status, rights, and opportunities that many powerful people are hording ~ yes, hording; I expect any day to hear about the number of dead cat bodies found in the homes, yachts, and bank boxes of 1%-ers; lost casualties in their stockpiles of power, wealth, and rights. But I digress. In feminism, equality means that women, biological or trans, are entitled to the same in status, rights, and opportunities as men. But it doesn’t mean that those of us who identify as women want to be men. I don’t want my femaleness erased any more than the Native American wants their race and culture erased. This is where “different but equal” comes into play. We want the same rights; that is all. Among the rights we want equally applied to us are the rights to live our individual lives without oversight, judgement, or other societal repercussions. This doesn’t just mean the right to participate in and enjoy having anal sex, having sex with a person the same gender as ourselves, or having sex before marriage; it means having sex on our own terms. Having sex on our own terms means the right to fall in love, the right to have sex without love, the right to set our own standards of how our relationships ought to work, the right to decide when and where we have sex, or even to decide that we do not want sex. This includes the right to prefer, fantasize over, or even demand big breasts, big biceps, big brains, big bank accounts ~ as well as small asses, small noses, and small minds. As individuals in the free market, we have the right to negotiate our desires and our relationships ~ so long as we harm no one past a broken heart. Whether you require chivalrous acts, insist upon being taken to a fancy dinner where a ring is placed upon your finger, or charge $100 for your affections, it’s up to you ~ and your partner(s) to accept. Or decline. Our preferences and choices limit our own options, of course. Love, desire, and the free market will decide how our standards fit into the laws of supply and demand as it plays out among individuals. But equality means we all have the right, regardless of what info we put into census reports, to make these decisions as individuals; not society, not the government, not movements like feminism.
Jessica Workman Working ItApril 17th, 2012Playboy Cybergirl for April 2012, Jessica Workman works the black lace lingerie ~ yes, she gets completely nude in the photo sets too. Just remember, that’s Jessica Workman; not feminist blogger Jessica Wakeman. *wink* In Praise Of Vintage PornApril 16th, 2012Vintage porn is inspiring. For one thing, it’s easier to feel a lot better about your own body when you see real bodies. Sure, these bodies are still the more beautiful among us; but look at this beauty. Big natural breasts that slide as the lay on her ribcage, rather than sit up and beg like plastic balloon implants. (Nipples are supposed to do the sitting up & begging!) There’s a softness to her figure ~ her tummy, her arms ~ that allows for her skin to not be stretched like a goat skin on a drum of bones or hard muscles. And look what else is there ~ it’s our old friend, pubic hair! When’s the last time you saw pussy hair? I mean in porn, erotica, even art; not your own or your partner’s. …Or maybe I do mean on bodies you can reach out and touch, because the absence of pubic hair in porn the past few decades has sent so many men and women to annihilating all the hair down there that it’s hard to tell the legal adults from the kids. People seem to live so in fear of the natural stuff now that even a landing strip freaks some out. Seriously. A girl friend, upon deciding “tonight was the night!” asked if she should remove the thin strip because even that much might be too gross. *snort* I leave mine on as proof of my full adult status and my lusty adult intentions. Sometimes I even show it off behind some sheer panties, like Pat Carpenter here. It’s supposed to be a dark tangled mess down there. More than a metaphor for the natural wild things to be done, pubic hair serves a fucking purpose. Pubic hair, from mound to anus, protects the skin from abrasion; it’s a barrier against the friction of fucking. I don’t know about you, but I like as much sex as I can get, and I’ll take a pass on the friction burns, thanks. Also, that Delta of Venus is part of love making itself. Pubic hair is like other parts of the female anatomy; it ought to be touched, put to good use during foreplay and beyond. Even below the belt, we women are more than a clit and a pair of holes. Wandering your fingers through her muff to discover and explore her pubic mound, her lips… I love it when he grabs the ends like a beard, and gives a gentle (or not so gentle) little tug. Just thinking about it makes me wet ~ and then my wet pussy hairs retain the scent of my musk. That sends a message alright. He loves the feeling of wet pussy hair; that’s his proof of working in the right direction. As a matter of fact, that’s another fabulous thing about pubic hair ~ when you put your hand down her pants, the fur tells you that you’re getting close… If the lights are on, that fur patch still leaves a little mystery… Brings your partner in closer if they want a better look. And while they’re there, they might as well kiss it. Now any porn with pussy hair is called “hirsute” ~ which is inaccurate and down-right dumb because the definition of the word means excessive hairiness, hair growing where it normally does not. And pubic hair is natural to the pubic area. If you’re a mature human, it’s as natural as can be. We used to be proud of growing those hairs. Hell, finding one of those hairs in the bar of soap used to be a (somewhat inconsiderate) gift from the sex gods. Of course, now more people use shower gels than bars of soaps, but I think you see my point: pubic hairs were once seen. They were signs of adults and adult actions. Why are we so afraid to show we are mature adults? Talk about some screwed-up body issues. And talk about the missed opportunities. Images: Gorgeous vintage photo via; sexy vintage Joseph Jasgur photo of Pat Carpenter in sheer panties proudly displaying her muff via. Take the Little Man out for CoffeeApril 15th, 2012
A place to take your little man, put a bib on him and lead him around by his leash. Have him wait outside even, while you enjoy a coffee and a good book. There are so many fun little things you could do in a coffee shop where kinkiness is expected. I’m sure there are limits but, if you use some imagination you can do a lot within reason. A Couple Of Cheeky Condom CommercialsApril 14th, 2012These are real commercials for Durex condoms, done by Paris ad agency Buzzman. But just because they are from France, don’t think they’ll be glamorous or even classy. In this first one, entitled Too Big For Her, the joke’s about packing it in: This next one’s going for a pun about baby batter ~ even if it is called Creamy (those ad guys missed it there): Via. Fighting Fuck ToysApril 13th, 2012At Fighting Fuck Toy Blog, a blog named after the term or phrase coined by Occidental College assistant professor Caroline Heldman, there’s a great ongoing discussion regarding the hyper-sexualized ass-kicking fetishized fighting female “heroes” in film and gaming. From the points of view of body image and media portrayals of women, the now iconic images of beautiful and usually busty babes (from Catwoman to Wonder Woman, from Charlie’s Angels to Lara Croft, etc.) are worthy of discussion. But as I’ve said before, women needn’t be intimidated by such things or accept the female forms they see as unrealistic expectations either. At Fighting Fuck Toy Blog, Jane Go concurs (link added by me):
Like I said, “I’m a feminist, so I get it. I see the horrors ~ the horror potential. But at some point I have to take responsibility for my own choices. And that includes the choice to experience art, media, entertainment ~ porn or not ~ for what it is: Non-reality.” Image: Lyna at Action Girls. Of Chubbies In Crushed Velvet Short-ShortsApril 11th, 2012Perhaps some sex dolls are too real. But if this chubby man in his crushed velvet shorts gives you a chubby of your own, by all means, enjoy it. I personally don’t mind his big man body image a problem; but I do find his expression of drunken apathy quite a turn off. I found this image over at BuzzFeed, where you can find more real male sex dolls. Today’s Sex Ed ThoughtApril 10th, 2012A number of people were so freaked out that it’s taken so long to even get close to easy, reversible, 100% effective birth control is for men , but why be so surprised when we didn’t even know what a clitoris looked like until 2009? | ![]() |
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