Exclusive Kaylee Pond Interview Part Four: What Women Want To Know About Being A CamGirl

We’ve been talking with the lovely 26 year-old webcam model, and self proclaimed geek, Kaylee Pond. In this last part (yes, I know; it’s sad to see it end!), Kaylee answers some more personal questions ~ the sort many of (but not only) our female readers are likely interested in.

Kaylee, as you know, there’s a fierce secondwave of feminist backlash. Many women won’t use the “F word” and many feminists are anti-sex work, resulting in even more fracturing. I have to ask: Do you consider yourself a feminist?

sexy geek girl with glasses camgirl kaylee pondAbsolutely! Though I feel it’s really important to avoid misandry and I feel it’s far too common in feminist culture. I talk about body and sexy positivity very actively in my chat as well, and I do my best to discourage any negativity towards those things if they’re brought up.

I must admit that I do like to think that I can spread feminism and positivity with my shows, even if it’s incredibly subtle sometimes.

Lots of people feel like being a camgirl is anti-feminism but that’s just utter bullshit. That’s people who don’t know what feminism really is, especially if it doesn’t look like what they think it should look like. Part of supporting and giving power and equality to women is letting them do whatever the fuck it is that they want.

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Anyway, I’m into feminism and hope that I can open a few people’s eyes to how that can be wonderful at least every once in a while.

Besides me, do you have female fans? In general, are there women who watch cam girls?

Yes, absolutely! I have at least one awesome lady who is a regular in my room and I really adore the idea of women watching my shows too! Whether it be for the fun and companionship, or for the sexy side of things. I think that there can sometimes be this idea that camming is all “for the entertainment of men” and I love the idea of making a place that is open and safe and comfortable and FUN for all adults of any gender or sexual preference.

shiny geeky camgirl kaylee pondSome female viewers let everyone know that they’re women, and others are either purposefully quiet about it or prefer to remain ambiguous, so I might have more female viewers than I realize…

The cam model community is also REALLY strong (at least a portion of us, for sure) and we often visit each other on “perv” accounts to support each other and say “Hi!”. Personally, I LOVE supporting other models and hanging out with them when they’re online and it’s great when they visit me, too! Sometimes you don’t know if they’re visiting though because most have names that are fairly inconspicuous. It is definitely considered the more polite way to visit other models — because it’s always important that you never ever take attention away from a model’s show. I really do love that aspect of the community though, it’s great to show support to one another and it helps us all stay connected!

Aside from the fun and money, what have you gained from camming? Have you learned anything about yourself, your sexuality…

Wow, what a great question! I would say that I’ve gained an immense amount from camming!

In addition to lots of cool skills like community management, some coding, making graphics, marketing, etc I’ve grown a lot as a person. The change was almost immediate.

geeky sexy confident feminist camgirl kaylee pond I started camming and became more confident in every other aspect of my life.

I would go in to work at my shitty customer service job and people would sometimes treat me just terribly. (You can tell that so many people just treat service workers like slime all through their lives wherever they go and they are allowed to do it because people just don’t want to have to deal with it. I have never been treated anywhere near as abhorrently while camming as I was when working customer service). Before I started camming, I would kind of just deal with it and let the shitty comments go — unless it was something I actually had to take care of in my job. Right away, after I started camming, someone would sexually harass me or be lame and I would just straight-up call them out on it! It felt great!

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But camming is not only a huge confidence boost, you also have to assert yourself. As a camgirl, you are managing and running your chat room; it’s your responsibility to deal with jerks and trolls. Anyone who sucks can just be kicked out — but you have to do it. So now, when I run into assholes in my life, it feels natural to put them in their place. I don’t run around yelling at people, but when it’s important I can stand up for myself and others.

I’ve learned all kinds of things from camming. I’ve learned how to be more patient, more accepting, more understanding, more flexible, more EVERYTHING! Probably one of the best things though is actually just how completely wonderful people can be. I think I’ve become a better person and a better friend since I became a camgirl.

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As far as sexually, I can definitely say I’ve learned quite a bit there! I am one of the many women who has an extraordinarily difficult time having an orgasm. I was saddened for many years because no matter what, I just could not seem to have one. I couldn’t be like all of those woman I saw in movies just getting it on and having awesome orgasms each time, no sweat.

kaylee pond burlesque lingerie camgirlI read up on it, I tried all kinds of things, my sexual partners each professed that they would, of course, be the one to finally make it happen with no real luck. It wasn’t anyone’s fault, but my body just wasn’t responding. I enjoyed myself immensely and loved sex, but just never got that prize at the bottom of the box.

As you can imagine, this was a huge source of concern for me when I started camming because I wasn’t sure if I could be as successful without having orgasms in my shows. But fortunately camming was the push I needed to do MORE research and, most importantly, to find out what toys people were using to have orgasms. After a bit of research on the camming forum I frequent and watching other models on MFC, I found that there was quite a favorite in the orgasm department so I decided it was a completely necessary start-up purchase. Enter the Hitachi Magic Wand, my dear sweet “personal massager”. I tried using it shortly after I started camming and OMG, I fucking finally had my first real orgasm! Everything changed!

camgirl kaylee pond is an orgasmic hitachi girlIt totally changed everything. Now I have a much larger toy collection and through camming I’ve been able to learn all of the best ways to enjoy them and have spectacular orgasms all of the time.

I thought I was going to live my whole life without one and now I get them all the time — it’s fucking awesome!

So now I know that for orgasms to happen, I just need an inhuman level of clitoral stimulation; but fortunately there are toys to do that job.

kaylee pond tushy pantiesI’ve been able to enjoy all sorts of other fun sexual things since I started camming. The art of teasing being one of my very favorite things.

But I’ve also been able to enjoy all kinds of other interesting sexual things that I‘d only ever delved into a little before (wax, ice, bondage, etc.). It’s really opened up a whole new world for me and I’m so grateful!

While this is officially the end of my chat with the divine Ms. Kaylee, never fear! I will find invent another reason to bring the sweet object of my affections back again… Until then, you can follow her at Twitter and Tumblr, buy her clips here ~ and of course, watch her on cam!

(When you do, tell her Gracie is still swooning over her.)

2 thoughts on “Exclusive Kaylee Pond Interview Part Four: What Women Want To Know About Being A CamGirl

  1. *Thinks about picking Gracie up from her swoon but decides she could use the extra rest.*

    Now what trouble can I get into?….

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