Who Doesn’t Want A Man Servant?

Remember last year when we told you about that imaginary boyfriend service? Well, there’s an even better service now, which employs humans, not bots: Man Service. Vice‘s Broadly gave us the alert:

While they state that this is not a sexual service, one just has to laugh. First, the fact that you’re not paying for sex is what all escort services say, so as to avoid illegalities. Ditto BDSM service providers. But, really, even if you and your escort, or dungeon master, never do the nasty deed together, the reality is that such things feed your sex life. Even if only via masturbation fantasies. (And, remember, masturbation is sex!)

The real clue here is the emphasis on intimacy. Sure, you can clean up the dirty side by referring to the female clients as “professionals” ~ but the added “with little time to meet men” and “paying for relationships” lines place us right back at paid companionship which is escorting!

While there are plenty of studies and jokes about women getting turned on by men doing housework, these man servants aren’t like the smarmy versions of Deuce Bigalow pushing a vacuum that you may have in your mind…

deuce bigalow lederhosen

Yeah, as you can tell by the gratuitous use of that specific Rob Schneider / Bigalow pic, I’m still on that lederhosen kick! But, no, Man Servants are not like that.

While Man Servants may vacuum, do the dishes, and take out the trash without complaining ~ and compliment you as he does it ~ he’ll be dressed for your fantasies: “Dressed to the nines in his signature suit and pocket square. No banana hammocks here.”

Apparently, the folks at Man Servants decided this was the female fantasy version of the classic male Fi-Fi the French Maid fantasy.

(Have we come a long way, baby? I’m sure other feminists and feminist bloggers will chime in, with many saying, “No, this is not feminism!”)

Oh, and Man Servant services include other female fantasy offerings as well:

man servant duties

But whether the guy is vacuuming, massaging you ~ even without a promised happy ending, or just arm candy, and then goes away, no string attached, until the if or when you hire him again, he is in the business of for-hire companionship. I repeat, that is exactly what escorting is.

This, my friends, is sex work.

This is where many of the feminists I imagine (for I am not going to go look for them), will take great issue. Sadly, many feminists are anti sex work. Even when sex work is all about female autonomy & women’s rights. *sigh*

Regardless of such complaints, this business is mainstream. And it’s real. Even if only limited to a few major cities so far.

Now, the remaining question is this: If such male escorting services are becoming more mainstream and acceptable, is this a step forward for sex work in general?

4 thoughts on “Who Doesn’t Want A Man Servant?

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  2. I don\t agree with your statement about this being a sex thing. I would hire a man to be nice, behave and escort me around for the day. There would be no masturbation or sex fantasies. I’m actually so tired of men talking about sex, wanting sex and not talking or really wanting me (other than for sex) it really would be an event to enjoy spending time with a man. Maybe it’s a Domme thing. Maybe it’s my lifestyle, background, history… etc. If I want an orgasm I have one. I don’t need sex or a man for that. However, I do miss spending time with a man. I like having the door held open for me. I like having him fetch my coffee. I like having him be polite, courteous, gentlemanly and even a little romantic – without having a photo of his penis sent to my email account.

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  4. Sure, I see your point(s), but that’s still what escorting is! Not all escorts or sex workers actually have sex every encounter; they are paid for their time, no matter what they do. Plenty of men just want an attractive, charming female companion ~ one who leaves, never calls, only is heard from again when the client initiates. Same here with this service, with the gender role filp. Also, the masturbation thing… I do believe that have such male fantasy time would lead to more sexual fantasies and masturbation. After all, who doesn’t have at least the occasional fantasy about a man who caters to them and asks nothing of them in return? ;)

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