Understanding (Some) Male Rape Fantasies

Continuing our conversation about rape fantasies… When I asked Miss Pearl to write about male rape fantasies, she did a great job with A General Introduction To Rape Fantasies, particularly when it comes to male rape fantasies. However, one facet … Continue reading

Rape Fantasies Are Normal, Even If You’ve Been Raped

If you were following along with the Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination conversation, you know that I asked Miss Pearl to write a bit about rape fantasies ~ specifically male rape fantasies. And she did. However… As usual, there were … Continue reading

Sex Question Friday: Why Am I Turned On By Rape Fantasies?

See on Scoop.it – Let’s Get Sex Positive Every Friday on the blog, I answer people’s questions about sex, love, and relationships. This week’s question comes from a female reader who wanted to know more about the topic of “rape … Continue reading

James Deen’s Alleged Assaults Were Ignored, Laughed Off by Casts and Crews #sexwork #porn #rape

Since Saturday, when porn actress and writer Stoya tweeted that she was raped by porn hero James Deen, four more adult film performers have come out agains Sourced through Scoop.it from: www.slate.com Cauterucci’s article gives the most balanced view of … Continue reading

Of “Yellow Fever” & Fantasies Of Asian Women

As a former sex worker, I know many fantasies seem problematic. We’ve covered the some of the fetishes & fantasies before, such as BDSM and rape fantasies. But we’ve certainly not covered them all. So I thought we’d take a … Continue reading

BDSM, Porn, & Rape

The one good thing about today is that I don’t need to defend BDSM in general; Jessica Wakeman and Clarisse Thorn, among others, have taken care of that. But I still have some work to do… Today’s issue in BDSM … Continue reading

Women, Including Feminists, Can & Do Like Rough Sex (We Knew That Already!)

Mashable discovers the reality that feminists can, indeed, like rough sex: Of the 1,500+ self-described “kinky” women Jennifer Eve Rehor studied in 2011, the majority were found to have participated in “at least one of the following activities for their … Continue reading

Feminism, Sexuality & Porn: Exclusive Interview With Erika Lust Of Lust Cinema

Yes, Erika Lust has won awards for her erotic films; but perhaps it’s more important that she makes films that you want to watch. And now, she employs the same eye she uses behind the camera to find and curate … Continue reading

I Before E, Except After BDSM: Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination

During this month’s adult sex education Twitter-fest, I’ve met a number of sex positive folks and read some damn good articles. (You should too.) However, as always, there are some articles which require comment past the 140 characters. This is … Continue reading

Of Feminism & Inequality In Porn & Sex Work

Normally I discuss sex work and sex worker issues at Cult Of Gracie, or curate sex work issues at Scoop.It, but as today’s discussion of the topic centers around pornography and other more graphic issues, it best belongs here. The … Continue reading