About Darla Darling

Divorce Darling - Romance, bondage and keeping my sparkle after divorce. I like doing things my own way.

Lace Boxers for Men


Got a bulge like Beckham but nowhere fitting to house it Manties are well and truly bringing sexy back to the menrsquos lingerie game that is.

Source: Manties Mens Lace Boxers | Firebox.com – Shop for the Unusual

I think these look much better than men wearing women’s underwear. These actually fit and don’t look like something someone will repost in a rude meme. If you really want to wear lace, silk or other stereotypically feminine underwear – make it your own. Be deliberate about it and don’t apologize for wanting something different. Underwear is personal.

Not my Way – Menstrual Tea

How angry would you really have to be to go this far, or this direction? Even knowing it is fake, a trick, this would not be something I’d do. Not even as a fetish. It’s one thing to go too far in that one moment… but then life goes on and that one moment never goes away.

There’s nothing darker than bleeding for a week without dying – except these period products.

Source: These Menstrual Marvels Make Hell Week Better. Period. | Dirge Magazine

Medical Fetish in Space

Do you have a medical fetish? If so, which are you – the doctor/ nurse or the patient? Most people are the patient in this fetish. Maybe that’s because being the doctor is a bit on the creepy side, a bit too much madness in the science. It’s all fun until someone loses an eye, right?

I like the medical fetish. I have my own fantasies and imaginings. I can day dream up all kinds of odd and wonderfully stimulating things. It’s fun.

In reality though, I’d be a little concerned if someone had all the equipment tucked away in their basement and wanted me to come over to play. Of course, I’m not a submissive. I can play a submissive in my own fantasies but, I don’t want to give up control really. I don’t have the patience or trust for that.

These illustrations come from Deviant Art.

Sex Positive Airbnb


The premise is simple. You pick your location, then scroll through the guest rooms (or prison cells and play pens) that are available. Anyone with the appropriate space or equipment is free to act as host, just as long as they are open and “accepting of sexual diversity”. Some apparently even stay to offer extra “educational” services – though this is not an official part of the Kink policy.

Source: A ‘sex positive’ version of Airbnb is now online | Dazed

A different vacation for those who want to take their sex on the road. I’d rather not. A road trip with a stop over is one thing. For some reason I don’t like the idea of being in a place rented from someone else versus my own place. Maybe it’s a feeling of comfort to be in your own space and know where everything is.

What do you think about KinkBNB?

A Yoni Egg?

We can get stimulated by odd things. I’ve admitted to a few here and on my own site. Why specific things work for one individual and not another is not something I think about a lot. I’d rather collect what does work for me and enjoy it as I please. I do think there is something of the science fiction/ alien fetish with this egg idea though. I’m curious about how it will feel slipping inside of me. I don’t think keeping it inside will do much for me, as far as stimulation. But, that’s all part of the experiment and the exploration.
egg Via Etsy: Crystal Energy Canada

First Impressions in a Man’s Bedroom

This is NOT my idea of a sexy bedroom.

I’m not expecting a lot but… it should be clean (sheets and the rest of the room). The mood lighting and posters are more likely to make me laugh and look for another guy.

This sort of set up is something a teenage boy may dream up but what kind of lover would he be? Very focused on his own needs and getting what he wants without thinking about the person he uses to get there.

What does your own bedroom look like?


Source: Bertibarbara.com

The Ugly Temple

Fitness and health people talk about the body as a temple. The body should be treated like a temple. I can understand. The idea is reasonable, makes sense. Then I see images of women’s bodies, like these… distorted. This is not healthy, or even real. It’s ugly, warped and unflattering. Images like this are created for perversion.

Women can not ever be valued while also being distorted and perverted. This is not a temple. No one respects this. No one values this. Women viewed this way are not respected or valued as people.

These are drawn illustrations but I’ve seen women photographed in poses like this. Chances are anyone coming to this site has also seen such photographs. They don’t turn me on sexually. They just make me really, really angry.

Source: Adult Corner – Shop By Category

Get Your Manly Goods Delivered

Dear men,

You can now have your food, socks, boxers, condoms and snacks delivered to you. For you.

Mantry delivers food and recipes geared to men. Past boxes have included a pizza party and bourbon BBQ theme. Once you sign up and decide which option you want for boxes delivered (1, 3 or 6) food will be sent to you every two months.

Manpacks ships all the essentials to keep men in underwear, razors and even lotions to keep you smelling fresh. Shirts too, but no pants… that did make me wonder. At least you won’t have to go entirely butt naked or barefooted with a monthly supply of socks and boxers or briefs.

CaptureI think someone at Manpacks has a sense of humour placing thickening shampoo right after fresh balls.