There’s No Such Thing As BDSM Romance? More BDSM Myth-information

I am deeply conflicted about this post, Publishers, Authors and BDSM…, by Mary of Mary’s Menage Whispers. Especially with regards to the following statements: It seems that authors and publishers easily forget that in BDSM, SM means Sado Maso. Sado … Continue reading

Censored Classic Porn Review: A Dirty Western

Silent Porn Star & I watched porn together. Or, I should say, at the same time. We both took advantage of watching A Dirty Western (1975) at the same time online at Pleasure Classics, where a trial is just $4.95. … Continue reading

A Review Of Jack’s Blowjob Lessons

Jack’s Blowjob Lessons by Jack Hutson, with Tanya J, boasts of being “The Worlds #1 Blowjob Guide.” No one knows what that means, exactly; or if it’s even true. The truth is, what is most known about this book is … Continue reading

Why Violence Against Sex Workers Is A Very Real & Feminist Issue

For those of you who have not yet read the long account of the terrible situation Jill Brenneman & Amanda Brooks find themselves in, get a cup of coffee and go do so. Their several year long ordeal reads like … Continue reading

Hetero Men Complain About Sexual Rejection From Women. Really?

Over at Eros Blog, Bacchus has an interesting discussion about a point raised in Adrienne West’s post at Thought Catalog. In West’s “true sex story”, she writes about her discovery that men like porn because it’s “a world free of … Continue reading

Ignore Me, I’ll Pay You; Blackmail Me, I’ll Pay You Again (About Financial Domination & Humiliation Fetishes)

“Whip me, beat me, make me write bad checks.” It’s a classic humorous line about BDSM (though the origins are murky), but that last bit would seem to hit at the heart of the plethora of financial games and gains … Continue reading

Say It With Me Now: “BDSM Is Not Violence”

The gruesome attack on adult film star and model Christy Mack certainly has exposed the horrible, ugly faces of misogyny, victim blaming, slut shaming, and the like. Right in the open, in the harsh light of of social media and … Continue reading

Speaking Of Crossdressing…

Since we were just talking about crossdressing, I thought I’d share a lighter side of the crossdressing fetish. One of the recent confessions at Erika Lust‘s XConfessions website (where she turns cheeky confessions into short erotic films) was from a … Continue reading

Meet Mona The Teddy Babe

I’d like to introduce you to Mona, the “Super Slutty Nympho” Teddy Babe sex doll with wild curly brown hair and intelligent brown eyes. Mona comes (if you’ll pardon the expression) with a green or black lingerie ensemble: a teddy, … Continue reading

End That Sex Rut: Be Prepared

Erotic fantasies may begin in the brain, but if you want them to be carried out by your flesh, you’ll need to be prepared. If you want to have sex outside of the bedroom, ask yourself if you’ve made plans … Continue reading