The Delights Of Sex Toy Gift Giving (Just In Time For Black Friday!)

sex toy gift givingWho says giving sex toys for the holidays is a bad idea? Act now and you can get special exclusive savings at Sexclectic too.

Use code SKWAY and get 15% off on any order ~ or, use code BIGSPENDER and take $25 off any order of $100 or more.

Plus, you’ll get free shipping within the contiguous USA on most products from Black Friday through Cyber Monday too. You can thank me later. *wink*

(Image via; more photos there too.)

Lingerie Catalog Dreams

It’s that time of year again ~ when lingerie fetishists can get their greedy paws on
the Secrets In Lace Dreambook! The sweet silky tap panties featured on the cover of the 2015 lingerie catalog can be found here.

sil dreambook 2015 lingerie fetish gift

Those tap panties are also available in a sheer version ~ oooooh la la!

black sheer panties

Available in white & black, size Small to 2XL.

bbw plus sized sheer black panties with lace

sheer white vintage style tap panties

Saucy Saturday: Who Face-Fucked Jessica Rabbit

Jessica Rabbit is the cartoon who launched a million wet dreams & fantasies ~ for both men and women. Here Jaye Rose takes on the cosplay role of Jessica Rabbit ~ and the load of her partner. I guess that’s why Jessica went for Roger’s carrot. *wink*

Jaye Rose Jessica Rabbit cosplay

cuming on jessica rabbit

Male Hormones: Hard Heads In Cooler Weather Prevail?

OK, now that October has passed, I’ve been thinking again about winter romance and what drives it

For the past few years, there’s been more of a focus on changes in male hormones ~ cycles, if you will. And the most fascinating (and debated) one is the notion of a yearly hormone cycle for men. Most of these articles reference specific studies and works by Jed Diamond, PhD, LCSW. Here Diamond briefly explains this yearly male hormone cycle:

In studies conducted in the United States, France, and Australia, it was found that men secrete their highest levels of sex hormones in October and their lowest levels in April. There was a 16% increase in testosterone levels from April to October and a 22% decline from October to April. Interestingly, although Australia, for example, is in its springtime when France and the United States are in their autumn, men in all three parts of the world showed a similar pattern of peaks in October and valleys in April.

Interesting, no?

men find women more attractive in winter Snow Nudes Alexey NikolaevEven if it (somewhat?) seems to contradict the other studies discussed above (repeated link), I would still argue the biological drive for sex increases during winter, that men find women hotter in cooler weather, is better for better survival of our young.

…At least until you get to that part about Australia.

I’m neither a scientist nor a researcher; but then neither is Diamond and he writes books on this stuff.

Like him, I can read a study. But the thing is, while these studies are mentioned, no one seems to point to the actual studies themselves so that I can read them.

And I want to read them.

Because what I really want to know is this: Did the study in Australia include men from the native population?

Native peoples biology would be more inherently connected to the seasons of the land than the descendants of colonization. And if our bodies (appendix, gall bladder, wisdom teeth, etc.) still haven’t caught up to a agricultural revolution that took place thousands of years ago, well, I doubt hormonal rhythms have caught up in a few hundred years.

Image Credits: Snow Nudes Alexey Nikolaev.

The Beauty Of Scars

In her Ruined Boudoir, Secondhand Rose discusses the vulnerability that comes of survival. I don’t want to cut a excerpt from the piece; it’s too beautiful to cut up like that. So just go read it and learn about the beauty of scars and the strength of weaknesses which build intimacy.

sexy scars

Image Credits: Shaholly Ayers & Alex Minsky; photograph by Michael Stokes.