The Rhinestone Tie

Possibly for a special occasion, but a little bling will pick you up on an ordinary day too.

I found several rhinestone ties once I started looking. Some were very colourful, with lots of patterns to choose from. But, I picked these two for their low key fashion flair.

My favourite comes from Lancetti:

The tie above comes from Exotiq Apparel.

There are plain ties, no pattern just rhinestones in a basic column and row. I found plenty of those on Etsy. But, they seem just a little too ordinary, like something done as a craft project. I think these ties look like something you chose to wear. A little boldness and risk without going overboard.

A Sleep Mask for Men

This is a sleep mask for men. You may think men don’t need a sleep mask. But, how often have you wished you could shut out the world for awhile and just get some rest? Or, you may be one of those people who sleep with their eyes open and wake up with dry, scratchy eyes.

You may think it’s too girly. It’s not, this is a soft grey, like a manly sweatshirt. No frilly bits or sparkles, unless you get the urge to add them yourself.

You may even think it could be dangerous if you have a Domme with a wicked sense of humour… you would be right about that one.

Still… doesn’t this little man look happy? All comfortable, snug in his bed, alone. I expect his Domme is just out of the picture coming up with some… plan for his day. A good plan.

PLEMO Sleep Mask, Ultra-Soft Velvet Eye Cover, Breathe-Easy for Bedtime & Travel [Improved Version]

Lace Boxers for Men


Got a bulge like Beckham but nowhere fitting to house it Manties are well and truly bringing sexy back to the menrsquos lingerie game that is.

Source: Manties Mens Lace Boxers | – Shop for the Unusual

I think these look much better than men wearing women’s underwear. These actually fit and don’t look like something someone will repost in a rude meme. If you really want to wear lace, silk or other stereotypically feminine underwear – make it your own. Be deliberate about it and don’t apologize for wanting something different. Underwear is personal.

First Impressions in a Man’s Bedroom

This is NOT my idea of a sexy bedroom.

I’m not expecting a lot but… it should be clean (sheets and the rest of the room). The mood lighting and posters are more likely to make me laugh and look for another guy.

This sort of set up is something a teenage boy may dream up but what kind of lover would he be? Very focused on his own needs and getting what he wants without thinking about the person he uses to get there.

What does your own bedroom look like?



Get Your Manly Goods Delivered

Dear men,

You can now have your food, socks, boxers, condoms and snacks delivered to you. For you.

Mantry delivers food and recipes geared to men. Past boxes have included a pizza party and bourbon BBQ theme. Once you sign up and decide which option you want for boxes delivered (1, 3 or 6) food will be sent to you every two months.

Manpacks ships all the essentials to keep men in underwear, razors and even lotions to keep you smelling fresh. Shirts too, but no pants… that did make me wonder. At least you won’t have to go entirely butt naked or barefooted with a monthly supply of socks and boxers or briefs.

CaptureI think someone at Manpacks has a sense of humour placing thickening shampoo right after fresh balls.

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Nut Sack Backpack

I don’t think this is what you give someone who’s been nice all year. This is only for the naughty boys or girls. If I did give this to someone (no one I can think of) I would just wait to see if they ever dared to take it out in public.

To be honest, I would not want this in public, unless it was an adult party with like-minded people. I wouldn’t bring it myself. Just too much man for me!

Source: The Scrote ‘n’ Tote Nut Sack Backpack You Can Buy. For Reals. – if it’s hip, it’s here

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Inside Every Man There’s An Inner Cross Dresser

Look, the mail has arrived and it’s for the male of the house!

The cover of the box reads “Clothes That Make a Man” ~ let’s look inside…

Clothes That Make a Man

Oh, look! A pretty sketch of a pinup gal wearing a bra and panties! (While I am dying to look beneath the lingerie, we aren’t given any clues… My best guess is that we’ve already seen as much of our pinup girl as we are ever going to.)

vintage Clothes That Make a Man novelty gag humor gift

For me, this is just the epitome of a crossdresser: Dandy suit on the outside, feminine attire beneath.

But, sorry, my CD friends; that probably wasn’t the intended message with this vintage novelty or gag gift.

In fact, this was likely intended to connote the opposite: men become real men when they see a lady in her underthings. Insert manly grunts here. Unless, of course, the real gag was that you weren’t man enough to handle a woman because you were a foppish man who cared more about his dandy appearance. Then insert guffaws and hearty back-slaps here.

Copyright 1948, H. Fishlove & Co. of Chicago. Given the date, this would have been made under the auspicious eye of “Chicago gag kingpin” Irving Fishlove, who was the son of the company’s founder.

And, hey, it only cost 3 cents to mail that thing back in the 1940s or 1950s. …Ah, but having some fun at the expense of a friend via gender norms, that’s priceless.

1948 vintage h fishlove and company

mail a box for 3 pennies

Femdomme Friday Fashions

Via the number one phone sex Tumblr site, I found this post and then the fabulous shop called Female Supremacy, which features some fab femdom fashions ~ as well as a number of items for their submissive partners. These are a few of my favorites…

Bonus: If you’re not familiar with Zazzle, you should know that there are numerous style and color options ~ for both men & women ~ and you can customize the shirts, complete with pet & power names!

these boots front

femdom trampling tee


get down at my feet femdomme tank top

this is femdom bdsm tee



but women kick balls

i_serve_my_domme_t_shirts-for submissive males

cuckold men's tee shirt


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Hoodie for a Knight

The original design for the hoodie knight armour was fromĀ Chadwick John DIllon. He sold them at his Etsy shop. The design took off, unfortunately others copied the idea. There are still a few other shops selling the knight hoodie on Etsy but, not Chadwick Dillon.

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I did find an online store based in Australia which sells the hoodies now, for a lot less than the Etsy shops. I bought one for my nephew from Knight Hoodies. They look good, a lot of the original details from Chadwick Dillon’s design.


There is a pattern for sale on Etsy, if you can sew. I wonder why no one made one from denim, like a denim knight jacket. Or, too inspiration from other historical figures, like a pirate hoodie.