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Nice man 39 seeking Indian woman for fun

Sat, 07 Mar 2009 09:20:23 CST

Posted By G7654

I am a nice attractive white British male and seek a nice young Indian woman in the London area for mutually enjoyable fun. Any nice Indian women reading please respond, or others who can helpfully point me in the right direction. It's not easy to meet Indian women. Kind regards Gareth

Porn: Is it bad or good in a relationship?

Thu, 05 Mar 2009 13:58:30 CST

Posted By Rachel

I know this site is probably going to tell me: Of course it's fine! But, I my bf of 2 yrs had told me he honestly looked at it 4 times early in the relationship and once while we were broken up. He said he didn't pay attention to it, didn't get off to it, closed the window when he "got off." I know what your thinking...SURE HE DID. But our relationship is the best because we can talk about anything and be honest and open to each other. He doesn't like porn and said he wouldn't look at it again because he doesn't need it/want it, that it was merely just something to be there even though he was watching tv more when it was on. I give him pictures of me and said if I had given him videos he wouldn't have done it--as bad as that MAY sound I understand. The thing is, I was really heartbroken about it because I didn't feel good enough. He reassures me how he didn't get off to it or anything or that it didn't do anything for him (swearing on my life) and I know I can trust him on that. No question. I don't really care about it anymore now because it's my first serious relationship and I never had to deal with this before, but I wanted to know what other people think about this situation/people in relationships watching porn. I know this is the BEST site to get other people's opinions on this. (NOTE: We don't have sex-were waiting for marriage-but we do do other stuff.) Thank you! Love, Rachel.

From NARAL - Week 1: Repeal the global gag rule. Check!

Fri, 23 Jan 2009 17:18:45 CST

Posted By deedee

Thirty-six years after Roe v. Wade became the law of the land, President Barack Obama took swift and decisive action today to end one of George Bush's worst policies: the global gag rule. Let's respond just as quickly with our thanks and support. Under the global gag rule, millions of women and their families have suffered. The global gag rule canceled funding for many overseas health clinics, forcing them to cut their staff, limit services, and sometimes close their doors entirely. In many cases, these health clinics were the only local sources of birth control for women! This outrageous policy severely limits women's access to family-planning services, which can lead to tragic results—higher rates of unintended and high-risk pregnancy, unsafe abortion, and maternal death. President Obama's decision to reverse the policy and release the funds for family planning overseas will enable women worldwide to have access to the comprehensive health care they deserve and need, including birth control. Please join me now in thanking President Obama for giving these women a new hope for the future. Unfortunately, anti-choice groups are bombarding the White House with messages and running vicious ads on TV and online that distort the truth about a woman's right to choose. That's why after you've thanked our new president, we need your help to spread the word to your friends and family. We look forward to working with President Obama over the years as our ally on women's freedom and privacy, and he deserves to know that the full strength of America's pro-choice majority stands with him. Thank you for all that you do! My best, Nancy Keenan President, NARAL Pro-Choice America

Smutty Mags On Sale!

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 04:30:32 CST

Posted By Silent-Porn-Star

Over a hundred magazines on sale at Amazon through December 31; here are a few of my favorites you can share as a couple: Maxim (1-year) , now just $5 Penthouse (1-year) , now just $19.95 Playboy (1-year) , now just $10.96

A Very Asian X-Mas Indeed

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 16:53:52 CST

Posted By SlipofaGirl

I stole Gracie's copy of Amorous Woman -- and I loved it! You can read an excerpt from the novel here at my blog and enter to win a free copy of the book too! But tell me, Gracie dear, which one of the other books will I be getting from you?

Giving Away Stuff All Week!

Sun, 14 Dec 2008 17:47:49 CST

Posted By SlipofaGirl

You know the saying, "Every time a bell rings, an angel gets its wings," right? Well, Ding Dong I'm giving away a thong because I'm your lingerie angel *wink* And that's just for starters! This week, I'll be giving away erotica, beauty goodies, diamonds and more lingerie!

Why is my girlfriend hiding her dirty secret?

Mon, 08 Dec 2008 13:24:08 CST

Posted By perkat9609

Hi, I need advice. I don't know if I've come to the right place, but I don't know how to find it elsewhere. I am a 35yo male with a live-in girlfriend, about the same age. We've been together a little over a year. Our lives are fairly 'normal' and happy, we frequently tell each other we love each other, we even talk about marriage. All seems well and good. But I accidentally discovered she has a dirty secret side, and I don't know how to handle it. I was looking through my web history to find a site I had visited, and I got this shocking surprise instead. I discovered that while I was out one day she had been home looking at internet porn. This would be okay, but it was the get-tied-up-with-nipple-clamps-on-bisexual-S&M-dungeon-fantasy kind of porn. This would also be okay, but she has never mentioned any interest in this sort of thing to me, and our sex has always been fairly conventional. I was too amazed to stop and think about the emotional consequences of snooping on her and went on to search further back in our computer's history for more. I found lots of searches for keywords like 'lesbian submission' and 'slave training'. Wow. If the galleries she looked through are any indication, she seems into both men and women, and she's definitely into getting tied up, and 'punishment'. More wow. I finally snap out of my fasicination at this discovery enough to feel bad about snooping on her. REALLY bad. But, the genie is out of the bottle, and I can't stop thinking about it. I mean, what do I do now? Why hasn't she told me about this or tried anything even remotely like this in bed? Is she embarassed, or does she think I wont understand? Which really, I don't..I had never been into BDSM stuff, and have never been with anyone who was. I don't even know if she is an 'S' or an 'M', or what to do for either. Does she even want to do any of this for real, or is it just her own private pornographic fantasy? Does she consider it a secret desire, or a secret shame? I'm disturbed by her near total secrecy about what she enjoys sexually, but I'm also intrigued about really exploring these things, but I'm also ashamed for having snooped on her. If I bring it up, will she be angry, will it ruin everything? Will she never truly be happy if we don't explore (let alone satisfy) this side of her? I do find the whole situation stimulating, I'm both excited and nervous. Any help? Thank you, perkat

Cute couple in bed

Mon, 01 Dec 2008 15:39:48 CST

Posted By deedee

A photo by berlintapes at Flickr titled Sub-atomic family:

The Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy # 12

Sun, 23 Nov 2008 05:37:41 CST

Posted By deedee

Thanks! And since I mentioned Margaret Sanger... Found in the February 22, 1941 issue of Liberty . What do you think it means?

You Don't Want It ~ He Can't Have It Back

Sun, 16 Nov 2008 00:05:06 CST

Posted By gracie

Exboyfriend Jewelry ~ where you can sell the jewelry once the relationship is over. They also run Stuff That's Left Behind , a blog about the other residues of relationships.